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Validation refers to acknowledging that another person’s experiences, feelings, or perspective are real and meaningful. Validation does not necessarily mean agreeing with every interpretation of events, but it involves recognising that someone’s experience deserves to be heard and taken seriously. In institutional settings, validation can help build trust and create space for constructive dialogue. When people feel that their experiences are dismissed or ignored, the resulting sense of invalidation can deepen conflict and make resolution more difficult.

Complaints are stressful for the whole family, and children are perceptive in ways that adults consistently underestimate. A child does not need to overhear a specific conversation to absorb the tension that a complaint process generates — they feel it in…