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rationing care
Allocation of support based on scarcity logic. Schools frame accommodations, staffing, and resources as limited, distributing them through triage systems that prioritise perceived severity, compliance, or institutional convenience rather than legal obligation. Rationing positions support as charity requiring justification rather than right requiring provision. Rationing care produces hierarchies of deserving students, denies accommodations to those deemed less urgent, and treats systemic underfunding as natural constraint rather than political choice.
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What if the school says “this is just how we do things”?
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How do I know if advocacy has turned into a time trap?
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Solving problems at school: punitive discipline and behaviour systems
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Solving problems at school: accommodation and IEP failures
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What parents expect when they file a complaint
When a parent files a complaint about harm to their child, the system looks reassuring. There are policies.There are timelines.There are appeal levels.There are forms to fill out. On paper, it promises fairness and due process. But many parents quickly discover…
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There’s a moment in every complaint process when the district hands you something and calls it a solution. A meeting. A plan. A support worker. A document promising to collaborate, reassess, and make sure your child’s needs are met. The language…
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When one child’s support becomes everyone else’s denial
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