
Home » About K12 complaints » Glossary
Pressure on students to suppress needs or distress. Schools reward compliance, quietness, and invisibility whilst punishing visible expressions of disability, neurodivergence, or distress. Masking harms students by requiring continuous self-suppression, delaying recognition of need, and producing burnout. Schools often fail to recognise masked students as struggling, interpreting suppression as capability and treating eventual breakdown as sudden onset rather than accumulated cost of sustained performance.

The apology is probably not coming. It is worth saying plainly, before anything else, because so much of what keeps families suspended in the aftermath of institutional harm is the unspoken anticipation of it — the sense that healing cannot properly…

This page addresses what to do when your autistic daughter is camouflaging at school, experiencing significant distress at home, and the school is using her apparent coping as evidence that she requires no support. It covers the research on masking, the…

Schools often assume that if a child seems compliant and calm, they are doing well. But many children hide their stress during the day and release it at home. What staff see at school doesn’t replace your child’s lived experience, medical…